I’ve come back to this piece, feeling like something was missing. Because once we’ve interacted with another- especially someone that we’ve had deep feelings for- we can’t help but be forever changed.

It took me time and space to recognize the gifts that still remain, even after a relationship ends. That single piece of advice they gave you that you still take to heart. The album they introduced you to that defined your 20’s. The book they gave you that changed your perspective about life.

The people I admire are a mosaic of colors they’ve created with others throughout their life. Instead of bitterness, they see their lives full of gifts and gems they’ve collected. Their lives are radiant and glowing not in spite of their past, but because of it.

I hope that somehow, we can all leave each other better than before. 💚